FUNNY THING ABOUT LOVE (PART I)

Let’s talk about love, that is, love that only couples can explain. No specific definition has been inculcated into our minds when we speak of love. All we know is love is a feeling toward the opposite sex and sometimes toward the same sex which is different from the love that we have toward our parents, brothers, sisters or friends. Here are three different cases of love which express the complications and sometimes funny realizations of the truth about love.

Here’s the first story. Two high school students fell in love with each other when they were in their senior years. Their relationship was kept secret to the family of the girl. The parents of the latter do not allow her to enter into a relationship with such a young age which at the time is at her sweet sixteen. After several months, through fraud committed by some of her friends, the relationship was made known to the parents of the girl. So, the girl was scolded, slapped and flew to another city of the country to separate her from the boy. They separated without further communication. Three to four years thereafter, the girl came back. So, they met again and realizing that the feeling is still there, they continued their relationship again without the knowledge of the girl’s parents. However, because the two are in the majority age, the parents no longer questioned the relationship although still they do not approve of the boy, now already a man, to be the partner of their girl, who is now a lady. The lady is so in love with the man, that no matter how her parents criticize the man, it doesn’t matter to her. The lady often says I would marry the man whom I first fall in love with. Now they are both at their thirties. It seemed that the parents of the lady have fallen out of reasons to take the man out of their lives, so they give in. They do like the man now. In fact they tease their daughter on when are they getting married. Their daughter just smiled and answered them, “We just parted ways. I don’t love him anymore.”

Wow! Is this what we get from falling in love? Now that time has passed, the circumstances may sound funny. After everything that has happened, no one would ever think that the couple would end up like this. This is one truth about love. Funny, indeed!

FUNNY THING ABOUT LOVE (PART II)

The second story goes like this:

A very young relationship exists between this couple. They have been engaged as a couple for only four months now. As compared to the first part of the series funny thing about love the couple involved in this case fall in love with no other hindrances that could ever be considered as a ground for their separation. Their relationship is open to the public. They have no financial problems that may restrict them from communicating with each other. They both have financial resources. There is no question that they both love one another. BUT, there is one big but in the relationship. They kept on fighting. You may say that this is normal to a relationship. Yes you’re indubitably correct! Nevertheless, it seemed that everyday there has been an endless fighting between them. Simple things like failure in answering the phone would end up to be a big fight to both of them. They are counting the other’s failure of giving importance to their relationship. The persons involved are not at their young age. The woman is at her thirties while the man is at his late twenties. Maturity wise, they may be considered matured enough to handle a relationship. But then one day they will separate ways and then after a few days just by senseless reason the woman would forgive the man then they are back again. This has been going on not only once, twice or thrice but at countless times. The main reason that they would end back into their relationship again is the so-called “all because of love.”

Is this really all because of love? Much funnier indeed!

FUNNY THING ABOUT LOVE (PART III)

The third story is for same sex relationship. This is no offense to those who enter like relationship. The purpose of the author is to show the different aspects of love in general and how they end up to be such a funny thing after all.

As mentioned, this involved a same sex relationship. The pair has been into a relationship for several years. They are at their forties. Considering the age bracket and the number of years that they have been engaged as lovers, it may be correct to say that whatever obstacle that may come into their relationship nothing can break the bond that they both built for quite sometime. Until now! A third party came in. No clear explanation has been given. No exchange of words has occurred. The family of one of this pair has come to love the other. Their relationship was accepted by the family of either side. But because of this third party, it all ended up to nothing. What is shocking is the other person involved who did not commit the affair which caused their separation entered into another relationship with an opposite sex. Is this relationship born out of love? Well, no one knows. The new couple claimed they both do. But is love has to be this complicated?

There are a lot of stories out there to tell. This may be of help to those who have not fallen in love; to be prepared of what could possibly occur while you are in a relationship. The funny thing is love is a fact of life. It exists for a reason. We fall in love; other relationships may have not ripened into marriage yet it cannot be denied that they felt and fell in love somehow.

WHOM WILL YOU CHOOSE

Our life evolved with the people surrounding us. They are considered one of the factors in molding our personality. What we do describes how we interact with other people. Our decisions in life affect the people around us. We are not alone in this world. No matter what we do it always involve other people.

Getting married is another stage of our lives that cannot be ignored. However, to indulge into marriage is one big decision that a person has to take especially if you belong to a family with very close relationship. Asking permission from your parents to get married is one big step to take. You’ll never know what their reaction will be. Because of respect and love you don’t want them to get hurt or to be angry with you. But you cannot skip marriage as well especially if you already met the man or woman you believe is the right person for you. Love is a blessing that has to be kept and treasured. It must not be abused. In the same way that you have responsibility to your parents you also have responsibility to the person you love. You cannot let him or her wait for a long number of years. What if he or she cannot take it any longer? Would you wait for that time to happen? Does getting married means leaving your parents away?

This may sound a simple question to some but still it must be well taken into account. Choosing between your parents and the person you love is and will never be easy. These individuals are but the most important persons in your life that you cannot take the risk of breaking their hearts. So, whom will you choose?

CONCESSION FOR LOVE

It is not too late to talk about love. Love is a feeling that even the oldest person in the world has yet to discover. We all know that it is unexplainable. Even though at times it hurts yet we continue to strive to keep the relationship going on. However, there is no question that the feeling is mostly happiness deep within; it is somehow a source of strength to an individual. It is a blessing. It is the beginning of building a family. Love is a distinct emotion that if someone left you for another it would result into a collapse of your life.

Being in love just comes out in the open. You will never know when it will come and go. So that once it reaches you it is essential to put all your heart into it regardless of the consequences of the same. However, to enter into an agreement to love someone for personal purposes is something that should not be countenanced. It is in a way enriching yourself at the expense of another person’s feeling. Even if both of you have agreed into it, wouldn’t it be that the other has concealed personal intentions in such concession? Are you willing to take the risk? What happens if you really fall in love out of it while the other is plainly complying with your agreement? That definitely hurts.

Never will it happen that love can be agreed upon. It’s a feeling deep within that only you can determine whether you really love a particular person or not. Never ever try to hide your real feelings. It would just cause you more pain. To love is to be happy. Let’s spread love.

FEELING IT

Life is a cycle. What our parents have gone through there is a great probability that we would experience the same. It is said that experience makes one a matured person. When we were young all we know is play, eat, sleep and have fun. The great thing about it is that you have no responsibility. You only think of yourself. Fact is life is moving so fast. It’s like it seemed to us it was only yesterday. As time passes by we grow old. This time we understand how life works. We already have a glimpse of what should we do in the near future.

Marriage is part of all these things. There is a moment of our lives that we meet someone who we believe to be the right person for us. Love evolves and with love follows marriage. Marriage is another stage of our lives that we need to face. With marriage comes big responsibility. By marriage you have to think not only your own welfare but also the welfare of your partner as well as your kids. To indulge in marriage, you must be patient, understanding, compassionate, and most especially God-fearing. One thing that hinders you in getting married is physically leaving the family you have grown with. The thing is decades of your life have been together with this family. Leaving them would definitely be a heavy heartache. So much more that you will be spending the rest of your life to a person whom you only knew for say one to five years. How well do you know your partner? Could you easily adapt to changes of your life?

All that we have to consider is that getting married will just come at a right time and at the right place. You just feel it. It will come to a point when everything seemed to be in place that you will know by heart that this is the right moment. When this time comes, you must grab it without a doubt and live happily ever after.

VALENTINE CHAT

Valentine’s Day is fast approaching. If we were just kids we really don’t know what it means. But as days pass by we are on the verge of truth that this day becomes not just an ordinary day but may be associated with Christmas and New Year. Try to go outside on this exact day and observe what is going on around you. You will notice that people are busy buying flowers and gifts for their special someone. Every store is as busy as they were in Christmas day. By this you will realize that you are left with an empty seat. Of course this observation differs from each individual. However the reality is no man is an island.

Whatever race you are you need friends or special someone. There are some who are desperate in looking for one. This is true. They believe that they are already left behind and are afraid of getting old alone. Younger persons may not yet understand this feeling but time will come when they will realize the feeling of finding true love. Of course you could say that even if you have no one to spend this valentine season you can go along with your family, which of course is a very good idea. However, the love that we have towards our family is different from the love that we feel toward that special someone. From the beginning we feel secure that our family will always be there to guide and protect us. But still we feel incomplete until we find that particular person set for each of us.

This problem could not be ignored. It would affect you psychologically. There may be several solutions. The most effective of which is to start by making friends. However, if you are the shy type you can join free chat rooms. With this you can meet new acquaintances and friends who among those may be the right person segregated for you alone.

FINDING YOUR MATCH

It is said that there is someone set for us. Those who are of age but without partners may think that they are left behind. But that is not the case. It is just that it is not the right time for you and that the man or woman for you is yet too far for you to reach. All you have to do is wait for him or her. Just make the most out of your life. Enjoy the things that you have at present and someday you’ll never know he or she will just work right into your doorway.

On the other hand, circumstances in life may just lead you to your future partner. There are so many ways that may be considered as a medium in your meeting with your partner and one of them is through free internet dating site. This is has been widely used as a means by some of our friends and acquaintances in starting to make friends. Before you can do so by sending letters, but because of the wide internet access all over the world 100% free online dating service is available. There is nothing really wrong in making friends online. Socializing in the internet has been a part of most people here on earth. By these you can meet your old friends and mostly new friends who are from other countries by which it may be a means in finding your match.

Start now, be known and sign in to your free online personals.

EXPERIENCING LOVE

There are different kinds of love. This is a fact. The love you have for your parents, brothers or sisters is different from the love you feel towards your friends, more so distinct from the love you have towards other persons not closely related to you. But what makes love interesting is the love that you experience towards an opposite sex. Isn’t this correct?

Loving someone you do not know from the start reflects the so-called magic of love. Why is there magic in love? To answer this question requires you to experience falling in love. When you fall in love, there are questions that don’t need answers; there are difficult moments that are easily resolved; there are heavy burdens that seemed so light to carry. There are instances when you can both understand each other just by looking at each others’ eyes. There is that electricity flowing when you hold hands. In fact, at times when you are fed up with all your problems, the little time that you spent together makes everything so easy. By loving someone, you just don’t have a partner but also a friend, confidant, lover, an inspiration or whatever else you can call it. There are so many things that you cannot understand when you experience to love someone special. However, experiencing the same can help you as a person. It is true that to fall in love entails sacrifices. Somehow, you feel that there are changes in you. Unselfishness is very important in a relationship. Pain does exist when you fall in love. Some may have negative experiences in love but in the end, there are things that you will learn that you haven’t realized before and it will be a way for you to develop a strong personality. Whatever you may go through just by loving someone is worth everything. You may not know it at present but someday it will just make you smile when you remember those moments.

We should not be afraid to fall in love. We should not close doors for a new love despite all those unexpected experiences. There are reasons for everything that’s going on with our lives. You may not have found one true love now, but, there is for sure one person out there that is looking or waiting for you. We don’t have to rush things just to fall in love. Love will find you in any special way.